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Motherhood,backed by evidence.

I'm WiseMum — a mum of two. From pregnancy and feeding to sleep and early learning, I distil research and paediatric guidance into reads you can finish during a night feed.

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Mum Life
2026-08-01

A Mother's Self-Care Isn't Selfish: Five Micro-Repair Strategies, Starting at 10 Minutes a Day

Caregiver burnout is a systems problem, not a willpower problem. Micro-breaks, lowered standards, outsourcing, social dosing and identity keeping — five strategies that actually fit real life.

Baby Care
2026-08-01

Newborn Sleep 101: The Only Four Things That Matter in the First Three Months

Forget sleeping through the night. Read sleep cues, use daylight, and hold the safe-sleep line — the first trimester of sleep is simpler than it looks.

Education
2026-08-01

Reading With Your Baby From Day One: What a Pre-reader Is Actually 'Reading'

The value of shared reading isn't decoding words — it's conversation, attachment and language exposure. How to start from zero, by age.

Nutrition
2026-08-01

Starting Solids: When to Begin, What Comes First, and the New Rules on Allergens

Watch for readiness signs, put iron first, and introduce allergens early and often — the three decisions that matter most.

Education
2026-07-31

Preschool Readiness: Separation Anxiety Isn't the Problem — Unprepared Separation Is

A 3-month skills checklist, a goodbye ritual that works, and realistic expectations for the first two weeks — turning the first separation into security practice.

Education
2026-07-30

Screen Time by Age: A More Realistic Approach Than Total Bans

Minimal screens before 18 months, under an hour of quality content at 2–5, always co-viewed — plus the three things that matter more than the timer.

Mum's Toolbox

The things you look up most, made into tools

No ads, no sign-up, great on mobile.

Due Date Calculator

Due date, current week and key check-up dates in one go.

First Foods Lookup

Age, allergen and choking info for 40+ foods.

Quick Answers · Myth-busting

The claims that circulate in family group chats — do they hold up?

Bundle up a fever and sweat it out

Myth

Bundling blocks heat loss and can cause dangerous overheating in infants. Instead: fewer layers, fluids, and weight-based paracetamol or ibuprofen.

Introduce allergens like peanut early

Evidence-based

Large studies (like LEAP) support early, consistent introduction of common allergens once solids are established — it significantly lowers allergy risk. Thin textures, small amounts.

Shaving a newborn’s hair makes it grow thicker

Myth

Hair follicle count and texture are genetic, fixed at birth. Shaving changes nothing — and razors can hurt delicate infant scalp.

WiseMum

Mum of two, former professional. I believe good parenting advice should be both scientifically sound and true to real life. No fear-mongering here — just well-researched, road-tested honesty.

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